MOVIE---------- HARPAL'S MARRIAGE

Yes, I called it as an movie. Tell me what a movie consist of - Music, dance, story, fun , excitement, thrill, some regrets, sorrowfulness and ahh ........ what else?? And u know what ! all these things were part of Harpal's marriage.
The day before his marriage we 10 friends reached to his home. The moment we went outside of the hoo-haa of city and the time we entered in the peaceful environment of the village we all were amazed, we put off the AC's, opened the windows and let the fresh air come inside. It was the charm of that air that we stopped there and then and enjoyed the gift of nature and the surrounding for some time. we were eager to gave some more time to that environment and our self but someone among us intimated us that the GHURCHARHI had started. so we rushed toward Harpal's home.GHURCHARHI was already on his way and we also joined it. That programme lasts for around 4hrs and we all were dancing madly, were looking very funny, sweating badly but still eager and ready to dance. After some more formalities (traditional) , we had dinner and every body in the house got settled where ever they got any place, every body was sleeping, except some ladies who were having a good time with the ladies sangeet and of- course I can bet for one more person who was not sleeping that night------- Harpal.... why? u must understand this by yourself...

Next morning we were given some snacks and tea and were asked to take a bath in the canal near the village. we reached there in less than 5 minutes and next moment we were in the canal. Among us only two person knows swimming sunil machra and ravi our DJ. There were some stairs on the bank of the canal where anybody can sit or stand and can have a bath.we were enjoying than sunil attri came in the picture and asked me to hold his hand so that he can have a dip in the water and can also enjoy his first ever bath in a canal. But it was ravi who came from some where and changed all the parameters of thrill for every body present there. He hold attri's hand we three were like an chain. suddenly foot of ravi got slipped, he tried to pull himself outside and in the way hold attri hard, attri who himself was not ready for this got unbalanced and pushed me along with him deep inside the water. The situation was like this that ravi somehow escaped and we both non swimmers were inside the canal of depth 15 feet with running water whose current was enough to push anybody with himself.
I don't know swimming so the 1st thing that i did was to raise my hand so that anyone can hold my hand and help me come out of the water. But within no time I realized that I was not at that place which was near to my friends , I was in running water , I was drowning in the water. The alga (plankton) and the current of the water keeps failing all my attempts to got stabilized. Water throws me out for 2-3 times and i took some oxygen in that small time but water also stopped doing so. I was going deep in the water, for next two three seconds my mind stops working , I was like a person in coma, no feeling, no fear.. nothing. Suddenly I thought i won't die, my life can't end like this and started using my hands to displace water that helped me taking some more breath and some time to see attri was near by me, I tried to hold his hand and with the help of each other we took some more much needed and precious breath. sunil machra at that time was very near to attri he extended his hand but attri was not able to hold it. slowly and gradually we reached at a point where there small grasses were present . I was about 1mtr away from it and compare to me attri had more chances to grab it, so I tried and was successful in throwing him toward the grasses, he managed to hold them and with help of his body I also hold the grass. But again I was a little bit unfortunate as that grass surrendered with my pressure and the current. same happened with attri also. But in that little time i was able to had enough life saving oxygen and enough look at the coming curve of the canal where I could see the long and thick grass, it was about 5-10 mtr away from me and the moment that grass broke I aimed at that thick grass. And my goodness I was able to hold it firmly, I was able to come outside the water. I took a deep breath, look back saw attri also grabbed that grass. I smiled once towards him, but he didn't noticed. within next 5 sec he vomits his stomach was full of the canal water, but i had enough water before i entered in the canal so i din drink it(i feel pity about attri). Within 30 sec i could be seen in the water again and in next 15 min i could be seen arranging beverages for my friends. But it comes out to be an shock for attri, of-course i had also started thinking that i could die but my previous four incident helped me in coming out of the situation earlier than attri.(yes i had similar type of experiences with water and u know what 3 out of these 4 happened in just a span of 15 days).
"YE PAANI TO MERI JAAN LE KE RAHEGA!"
i TALKED TO ATTRI TRIED TO CONSOLE HIM AND MAKE HIM HAAPPY and feel good. coming from there we played cards, had lunch some good sleep, some leg pulling, we all completely forgotten the mornings incident except attri, he keeps on reminding me that incident every time i looks towards him. In the afternoon itself attri told me the reason why he survived. the reason was a little bit full of coincidence, some attachments, some beliefs and much more than that. He told me that when both us were in the water at that very time her mother called him on his mobile(he saw me the missed call) and than i had no option but to accept that her mother's call saved his life.
Its the human tendency and am not an exception so i also started finding any such reason why my life got saved. i thought about it , i took time, i look from every aspect but the result was zero. no missed call, no message because i was out of network coverage area. so i found nothing except one thing , the date 24th march and it was sunny's, my younger brother's birthday. thinking this tears came in my eyes . i called him wished him for the day than i came to know that he was waiting for my phone call and how could any brother go from this world when his brother is waiting for him, so it was the reason why i got saved. ravi had another reason , he thinks of the stink that could be attached with him for life long if we would have been drowned.
It might be the wish of YAMRAAJ whose target might be achieved before the closing of the current financial year i.e 31st march..
so in the evening we got ready to attend the marriage ceremony. we started and gathered at the venue. therefrom we had a blast in the party. we danced ruthlessly taking no care of our body. that time i got to know that ten more person coming from gurgaon. i received them and asked them to join the baraat and dance there, everyone agreed from the boys side, but 3 girls denied the proposal , reason the already shocked attri frightened them saying this would not be a good decision to dance in the baraat.but we were managed to push them in the group of the ladies who were dancing with the help of harpal's sister.

so we enjoyed that night very much. that was a party which everybody will be happy to attend.

so this consist of all the things like an movie . we had music, dance, story , conflicts and dilemma in thought that why our life got saved , regrets from my side that i found no one other than sunil machra who was interested in saving our lives and may be i had a feeling that i made a mistake in making friends but nonetheless, my life is now again on the right track, we returned full (i mean in numbers). it was a good experience , amusement, learning and so much that happens only in movies. that 's why i called it as an movie.




COMMENT ON THE GIVEN BELOW QUESTION IF U THINK SO:

READING EVERY THING DO U THINK THAT I SHOULD BE MORE CAREFUL IN MAKING FRIENDS AND SHOULD I LEARN SWIMMING OR PLAY WITH WATER IN THIS WAY ONLY?

Parties, Celebration & Hiccups......

The other day I got an SMS from one of my friend. The lines were like this:

Alone we smile, together we laugh;
Alone we enjoy, together we CELEBRATE.....


At that point of time this word celebrate made me to think about it. YA its a magical word. It brings feelings of curiosity, eagerness, full of energy, excitement, happening & what not.
And its true that all these words comes to my mind as well, but not alone, but with one more word " HICCUP". Yes its always there when I celebrate any event with my friends.

The process of any event starts with an !dea that comes to anyones mind. Than starts the SMS's & phone calls to invite more Bakra's(scapegoats) to the party. Party could of any two of these types: 1) Alcoholic, 2) NON- Alcoholic.
NON- Alcoholic parties are not practically viable & are not in trends, so forget about it. Now one option that left is Alcoholic parties so we arranges it at our place or PALACE whatever u think u can think freely. We do make the list of all the things that we have to bring from outside for the party, this is the easiest part of the process of the celebration because every one knows what they need exactly & no doubts they are in their senses as well. Usually the method of "Dutch the party" is used, but sometimes we do have guest who are real guest in their mind & not less than GHOST for any one of us who have to bear his expanses from his pocket. Now cutting the long story short, once they starts Boozing u will definitely love to hear & see what all going around there. Someone is fagging making rings of the smoke, every one having a glass of their drink in one hand & leg piece in other hand. On the other hand some starts poking fun of individuals, pulling their legs so that others can laugh loudly. There is no sign of any type of worry whatsoever in any body's mind. But as soon as some alcohol goes in they come out with different and mind u unique types of funny questions, & that makes the environment even more lively. They come out to be what they really are, but there are person who have nothing in there life ( Dukhi aye the dukhi hi jayenge). They share their grievances with others and believe u me everyone got a answer for their problems and yes of course all the alternative solutions are weird .... very very very very weird.
But as night passes, some of the so called real boozers could be seen vomiting badly. There u will find a topic every time which divides the group into three parts...... 1) Believer ,2) Non- Believer (Both of them constitutes of most of the members)
3) Negotiators(these r non drinkers because drinkers themselves not in their senses to sort out the problem). So u might understand it by urself that how much tedious work is this to handle these two groups. They tries to make these two groups , to u know, negotiate. But all in vein. Than the non drinkers have no option but to put the party on halt and to make it end as soon as possible. This is the time when the non drinker has to prove his mettle to persuade everyone(yes everyone who don't wanna hear a single word from that obnoxious person) , but in some time he is able to conclude the party. Than starts one more tiresome job if the non drinker is one of the organizer , that is to made the other organizers sleep. This becomes even more problematic if he is the lone non drinker left in the house(it is no longer remain a PALACE). He starts criticize that moment when he took decision of participating in the so called CELEBRATION.
But one minute do u have a feeling that why the heck this person called Ashwani Phalswal talking about it?????
Yes. Actually this is not ur fault, nobody can understand that non drinker chap. But I do... WHY??? ....




BECAUSE I AM ONE OF THESE BLOODY NON DRINKERS FAMILY...............



Hiiiiicckkkkkk....................