MOVIE---------- HARPAL'S MARRIAGE

Yes, I called it as an movie. Tell me what a movie consist of - Music, dance, story, fun , excitement, thrill, some regrets, sorrowfulness and ahh ........ what else?? And u know what ! all these things were part of Harpal's marriage.
The day before his marriage we 10 friends reached to his home. The moment we went outside of the hoo-haa of city and the time we entered in the peaceful environment of the village we all were amazed, we put off the AC's, opened the windows and let the fresh air come inside. It was the charm of that air that we stopped there and then and enjoyed the gift of nature and the surrounding for some time. we were eager to gave some more time to that environment and our self but someone among us intimated us that the GHURCHARHI had started. so we rushed toward Harpal's home.GHURCHARHI was already on his way and we also joined it. That programme lasts for around 4hrs and we all were dancing madly, were looking very funny, sweating badly but still eager and ready to dance. After some more formalities (traditional) , we had dinner and every body in the house got settled where ever they got any place, every body was sleeping, except some ladies who were having a good time with the ladies sangeet and of- course I can bet for one more person who was not sleeping that night------- Harpal.... why? u must understand this by yourself...

Next morning we were given some snacks and tea and were asked to take a bath in the canal near the village. we reached there in less than 5 minutes and next moment we were in the canal. Among us only two person knows swimming sunil machra and ravi our DJ. There were some stairs on the bank of the canal where anybody can sit or stand and can have a bath.we were enjoying than sunil attri came in the picture and asked me to hold his hand so that he can have a dip in the water and can also enjoy his first ever bath in a canal. But it was ravi who came from some where and changed all the parameters of thrill for every body present there. He hold attri's hand we three were like an chain. suddenly foot of ravi got slipped, he tried to pull himself outside and in the way hold attri hard, attri who himself was not ready for this got unbalanced and pushed me along with him deep inside the water. The situation was like this that ravi somehow escaped and we both non swimmers were inside the canal of depth 15 feet with running water whose current was enough to push anybody with himself.
I don't know swimming so the 1st thing that i did was to raise my hand so that anyone can hold my hand and help me come out of the water. But within no time I realized that I was not at that place which was near to my friends , I was in running water , I was drowning in the water. The alga (plankton) and the current of the water keeps failing all my attempts to got stabilized. Water throws me out for 2-3 times and i took some oxygen in that small time but water also stopped doing so. I was going deep in the water, for next two three seconds my mind stops working , I was like a person in coma, no feeling, no fear.. nothing. Suddenly I thought i won't die, my life can't end like this and started using my hands to displace water that helped me taking some more breath and some time to see attri was near by me, I tried to hold his hand and with the help of each other we took some more much needed and precious breath. sunil machra at that time was very near to attri he extended his hand but attri was not able to hold it. slowly and gradually we reached at a point where there small grasses were present . I was about 1mtr away from it and compare to me attri had more chances to grab it, so I tried and was successful in throwing him toward the grasses, he managed to hold them and with help of his body I also hold the grass. But again I was a little bit unfortunate as that grass surrendered with my pressure and the current. same happened with attri also. But in that little time i was able to had enough life saving oxygen and enough look at the coming curve of the canal where I could see the long and thick grass, it was about 5-10 mtr away from me and the moment that grass broke I aimed at that thick grass. And my goodness I was able to hold it firmly, I was able to come outside the water. I took a deep breath, look back saw attri also grabbed that grass. I smiled once towards him, but he didn't noticed. within next 5 sec he vomits his stomach was full of the canal water, but i had enough water before i entered in the canal so i din drink it(i feel pity about attri). Within 30 sec i could be seen in the water again and in next 15 min i could be seen arranging beverages for my friends. But it comes out to be an shock for attri, of-course i had also started thinking that i could die but my previous four incident helped me in coming out of the situation earlier than attri.(yes i had similar type of experiences with water and u know what 3 out of these 4 happened in just a span of 15 days).
"YE PAANI TO MERI JAAN LE KE RAHEGA!"
i TALKED TO ATTRI TRIED TO CONSOLE HIM AND MAKE HIM HAAPPY and feel good. coming from there we played cards, had lunch some good sleep, some leg pulling, we all completely forgotten the mornings incident except attri, he keeps on reminding me that incident every time i looks towards him. In the afternoon itself attri told me the reason why he survived. the reason was a little bit full of coincidence, some attachments, some beliefs and much more than that. He told me that when both us were in the water at that very time her mother called him on his mobile(he saw me the missed call) and than i had no option but to accept that her mother's call saved his life.
Its the human tendency and am not an exception so i also started finding any such reason why my life got saved. i thought about it , i took time, i look from every aspect but the result was zero. no missed call, no message because i was out of network coverage area. so i found nothing except one thing , the date 24th march and it was sunny's, my younger brother's birthday. thinking this tears came in my eyes . i called him wished him for the day than i came to know that he was waiting for my phone call and how could any brother go from this world when his brother is waiting for him, so it was the reason why i got saved. ravi had another reason , he thinks of the stink that could be attached with him for life long if we would have been drowned.
It might be the wish of YAMRAAJ whose target might be achieved before the closing of the current financial year i.e 31st march..
so in the evening we got ready to attend the marriage ceremony. we started and gathered at the venue. therefrom we had a blast in the party. we danced ruthlessly taking no care of our body. that time i got to know that ten more person coming from gurgaon. i received them and asked them to join the baraat and dance there, everyone agreed from the boys side, but 3 girls denied the proposal , reason the already shocked attri frightened them saying this would not be a good decision to dance in the baraat.but we were managed to push them in the group of the ladies who were dancing with the help of harpal's sister.

so we enjoyed that night very much. that was a party which everybody will be happy to attend.

so this consist of all the things like an movie . we had music, dance, story , conflicts and dilemma in thought that why our life got saved , regrets from my side that i found no one other than sunil machra who was interested in saving our lives and may be i had a feeling that i made a mistake in making friends but nonetheless, my life is now again on the right track, we returned full (i mean in numbers). it was a good experience , amusement, learning and so much that happens only in movies. that 's why i called it as an movie.




COMMENT ON THE GIVEN BELOW QUESTION IF U THINK SO:

READING EVERY THING DO U THINK THAT I SHOULD BE MORE CAREFUL IN MAKING FRIENDS AND SHOULD I LEARN SWIMMING OR PLAY WITH WATER IN THIS WAY ONLY?

Parties, Celebration & Hiccups......

The other day I got an SMS from one of my friend. The lines were like this:

Alone we smile, together we laugh;
Alone we enjoy, together we CELEBRATE.....


At that point of time this word celebrate made me to think about it. YA its a magical word. It brings feelings of curiosity, eagerness, full of energy, excitement, happening & what not.
And its true that all these words comes to my mind as well, but not alone, but with one more word " HICCUP". Yes its always there when I celebrate any event with my friends.

The process of any event starts with an !dea that comes to anyones mind. Than starts the SMS's & phone calls to invite more Bakra's(scapegoats) to the party. Party could of any two of these types: 1) Alcoholic, 2) NON- Alcoholic.
NON- Alcoholic parties are not practically viable & are not in trends, so forget about it. Now one option that left is Alcoholic parties so we arranges it at our place or PALACE whatever u think u can think freely. We do make the list of all the things that we have to bring from outside for the party, this is the easiest part of the process of the celebration because every one knows what they need exactly & no doubts they are in their senses as well. Usually the method of "Dutch the party" is used, but sometimes we do have guest who are real guest in their mind & not less than GHOST for any one of us who have to bear his expanses from his pocket. Now cutting the long story short, once they starts Boozing u will definitely love to hear & see what all going around there. Someone is fagging making rings of the smoke, every one having a glass of their drink in one hand & leg piece in other hand. On the other hand some starts poking fun of individuals, pulling their legs so that others can laugh loudly. There is no sign of any type of worry whatsoever in any body's mind. But as soon as some alcohol goes in they come out with different and mind u unique types of funny questions, & that makes the environment even more lively. They come out to be what they really are, but there are person who have nothing in there life ( Dukhi aye the dukhi hi jayenge). They share their grievances with others and believe u me everyone got a answer for their problems and yes of course all the alternative solutions are weird .... very very very very weird.
But as night passes, some of the so called real boozers could be seen vomiting badly. There u will find a topic every time which divides the group into three parts...... 1) Believer ,2) Non- Believer (Both of them constitutes of most of the members)
3) Negotiators(these r non drinkers because drinkers themselves not in their senses to sort out the problem). So u might understand it by urself that how much tedious work is this to handle these two groups. They tries to make these two groups , to u know, negotiate. But all in vein. Than the non drinkers have no option but to put the party on halt and to make it end as soon as possible. This is the time when the non drinker has to prove his mettle to persuade everyone(yes everyone who don't wanna hear a single word from that obnoxious person) , but in some time he is able to conclude the party. Than starts one more tiresome job if the non drinker is one of the organizer , that is to made the other organizers sleep. This becomes even more problematic if he is the lone non drinker left in the house(it is no longer remain a PALACE). He starts criticize that moment when he took decision of participating in the so called CELEBRATION.
But one minute do u have a feeling that why the heck this person called Ashwani Phalswal talking about it?????
Yes. Actually this is not ur fault, nobody can understand that non drinker chap. But I do... WHY??? ....




BECAUSE I AM ONE OF THESE BLOODY NON DRINKERS FAMILY...............



Hiiiiicckkkkkk....................

Fight With GOD----- The Almighty

God is present everywhere , God is in you , God is in me, God is in everyone. He cares & look after everyone. He don’t discriminate with his own creation. He is the one who loves all his men. This is what a layman thinks about God . whether they call him as Ram or Allah or Wahe Guru or Jesus or any other name , one thing is common in all, they follow the path laid by the respective God of them for the betterment of humanity, to keep harmony among each other , to be helpful to each other & ……. What not. They follow that path blindly & they believe in God whole heartedly.
But Ashwani is a crook. He is a non-believer. His family is like any other normal Hindu family which performs all rituals, festivals, prayers with a great pomp-n-show and enthusiasm. How come this possible that in such a family a guy like Ashwani took birth…?????
Well he was not like that earlier, he always participated in all prayers without questioning their needs. Instead, he also started believing in God as others do it in an Hindu family. Slowly & gradually time passes, he did his graduation. He was always inspired by the GUN & GUTS of an soldier. He always dreams to be an officer in Armed Forces. He started preparing for it.

24th March 2007 HE went to Bhopal for his 1st ever SSB(service selection board which selects or recommends officers for Armed Forces). The result was not memorable but the experience was. He remained there for good 5 days and returned as an confident person. He had learned his initial chapters that how to face the world with his 1st exposure to the world of competition. He was not demoralized or discouraged with this failure. Instead he felt that this experience will come handy next time. Time passes, dates run fast.
10th Sep 2007 Same result . One thing that was common in these two ssb’s that they both felt in the days of NAVARATTRE’s . so it was his belief that God will help him & he will be able to succeed this time. But nothing happened much except some more learnings.
1st Jan 2008 He was in one of the beautiful city of the country, Dehradoon. He cleared PABT (Pilot Aptitude & battery Test ). On that day he came to know that he has the capability to fly a fighter plane or a chopper. I mean he could be trained to do so, he was trainable. Mind you friends this pabt is a life time test , once you pass it you don’t have to give it again and if you fails that means you can’t at least in this life can work with armed forces as an pilot.
So he was pretty sure about his success this time, but he fails. He didn’t know how but somehow he fails. He didn’t paid much heed to it.
His last SSB Allahabad Everything this time went exactly very good. Starting from the beginning to the last , but the result. On his journey in returning from Allahabad to his home , he feels 1st in his life very much depressed, very much like an looser. Finally what he concluded was this that it was not him who was responsible for the result because he prepared so well every time , so it was God who was stopping him in getting the much desired success. I don’t know literally that whether he was right or not.
He started thinking in a changed manner . you might say that it was his craziness , madness of Ashwani to think like this . But you know, to his mind he had got all the valid reason not to believe God. Despite all his efforts he was failing. Question s like --- what do I did wrong? Why God is targeting me only while there are other people also? And all such stuff which comes in mind of probably a looser. I know it was wrong but I can’t do a single thing because it was the way he started thinking …
The result was horrible. He started avoiding all such things that includes God in a way or other. Festivals for him had no importance. He even had an argument with his parents on sitting in the Deepawali prayer(which he regrets even now). His parents made him agree to sit there, physically he was there but mentally he was somewhere else. He wanted to show his anger to the God for what he did wrong to him. I must say that he put all his efforts to show his intention towards God to everyone.
But the best part of the story was yet to come. Once he started thinking that God is not going to help him, he started believing in himself. He recognized the strength of his soul, he took life as it was coming. He got self motivated, he doubled his efforts like a Lion does. Lion who once fails to hunt stops there rebuild his strategy , regains his energy & attacks with doubled efforts. He wanted to just show a thumb to God that hey God look here am well established here. With his efforts he started getting result . he was able to got admission in an renowned institute. Once he started getting these small- small success Irony comes in picture, God who was not helping him earlier now by self helping him out from many situation. But I am very happy that at least he started believing in himself.
In the end I must say one more line
”THE BEST PART OF A DISASTER IS THAT YOU CAN START ALL FROM BEGINING”



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Triumph -I Don't Need You !

Victory, Wining, Success..... Triumph. These are the words that every body wants to see in his life. Be its his first venture of doing things or he is doing it for long time. Nobody want to loose in their life. They all give importance to achievement, acquiring while keeps failure aside. Failure brings sadness, sorrows, feeling of not achieving what was desired . But we have to understand that failure brings a Zeal, a great energy, an enthusiasm which is nothing but a motivation that by itself helps us in achieving the unachieved. It is the failure which teaches us what went wrong, why we got failed. You can understand the importance of failure like this. Suppose their is a guy, he is a successful person in life , he never failed in life. Currently he is working on an project which can make or break his life, he put all of his efforts but somehow he fails. What's than ....? It is quite possible that, that person will not be able to recover from that jerk of his life . But at the same time a guy who had many such experience in his life will take it as one of the learnings in his life. So that's why it is very essential to taste the failure if you want to taste success. Somebody had rightly said "Failure is the first step to Success." So For me to say this that "Triumph I Don't Need You" will not be wrong at all. Because we tend to learn new & new things from failure. So as an Human being, As an Student, As an wanna be manager, As an friend of yours I recommend that nobody should feel bad about failure and should always try to learn from it so that same mistake will not be repeated again.



That is it for today......
Next Publish----- Fight With GOD----- The Almighty

One Is Living & One Is Leaving...... Day 2

1st of all sorry for not blogging yesterday , but I wanted to make myself ultra- confirm that whatever am going to write here should be true. So I waited and now am ready with what I have to write.
Today Am very happy that I was wrong. Not every time, but its a special feeling in which I am wrong & still I am feeling happy. This is one of the rarest of the rare case when I am wrong & I am feeling happy. Well the thing is that "One Is Leaving " now converted to "One Is Not Living". He is back . I am feeling so relaxed , that my friends life came again on the right track. He despite having two-three bad days of his life, recovered so nicely that it not only shows his calibre of handling the situation but also shows his tendency to build a good relationship. I don't know whether he has done any sacrifice for it or he just accepted it as the way it is , but that is immaterial what is important is that he is back . Back to life. Back to live the life fullest. Back to the good old days. Moreover, Back to us.
Because I am so happy, words today are missing and am feeling short of words in describing this feeling of mine. so this is it for today.


meet u again. Till than Ram Ram ......

One Is Living & One Is Leaving............... Day - 1

Ya ! I know you want to know now "What is the meaning of the heading that I have given to this blog". You know am more eager to tell it to you than how much you excited to know it. But for today I'll be talking about the 1st one only that is "ONE IS LIVING". why? Because I have all the rights to write or not to write anything. I mean , Of-course I can't do this to my readers but at the same time I have to keep something with me that I can share to my wonderful wonderful lovely readers tomorrow. So coming on the point directly without wasting more of your precious time, this I have written for my friend, no not that one who was busy in searching how to make V-Day a super hit , instead its for my friend Ravi.
Ravi is facing a situation which most of the boys wants to face in their lives. While some boys have to try hard to convince their valentine to be with them on V-day , Ravi is provided with a gift given to him probably by God(Though I don't believe in God). The chance
of Dating three girlfriends in single day 14th Feb. But there comes the twist , Project 1(If you are a girl sorry , because I called them project instead of naming them but its exactly what we boys call it as , at least in my terms) wants to see a movie named "My Name Is Khan" on the eve of 14th Feb, project 2 on the other hand some other plans. She want to go the Famous "Surajkund Mela" , whereas Project 3 wants to have dinner with Ravi. More interestingly all the three projects wants different timings that is no timing problem for Ravi. But its our Ravi who is going to be killed working on these projects. How ?? First he has to go to Rohini(New Delhi), from there he have to go to Faridabad(Haryana) and than finally to Alwar(Rajasthan). And that clearly means that he have to travel around 200 km on 14th Feb and three States. Isn't he so lucky. I must say he is the person having all his fingers dipped deep in the jar of butter. He is living his life though he have to make so much arrangements for it but still he'll be in a win win situation....

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Why The Pillow Of My Friend Was WET ????------ 12th Feb

Well it is like any other morning for me. The Dawn was on time , some cold in morning but as sun take his position it started becoming hot . But.. but... but...
am not here to discuss what i feel about the morning , instead am here to tell you what my friend think about it. same close friend about whom i disccused yesterday
... well to feel about the morning one have to take a good sleep first but as i mentioned earlier he his so exited about the v- day that he is having goose bumbs whenever he thinks about it and taking a sleep is an idea far away from a lover like him. he thinks of the day as why this 12th , 13th feb are here intrupting in coming of 14th feb .... the D-day. Every time i see towards him i feel pity about him . even i can't count how many times he has crossed the date 12th from the calender. he stares toward 13th feb thinking this will help him to ommit it from the calender . i feel sorry about the calender thinking how much he has to bear in showing people the important dates of their life.
well coming again to the topic or better say come with a gun toward my friend , this morning is also a morning for the prepration for the 14th feb . he went five times to see wheather the washerman came or not so that he can get his clothes washed and ironed , funda was clear he don't want any stone unturned. after the washerman came, my friend gave him clear instruction that ironing must be hard.
he keeps himself very busy today, though it was holiday. he keeps on calling few of the taxi service provider and with his limited budget which he ofcourse took from me ha..ha..ha..(just kidding), he was able to have good luxary car booked for the day. am having a vigil on him, that i'll share with you in coming 2 days. this is it for today.
Before ending i want to share one more thing -though he want to show himself as happy but i probably won't be able to know in my interaction with him why his pillow was wet in the morning.....????????

V-- Day Is The D-- Day

For most of us who have a girlfriend luckily or unluckily, this valentines day is the final Day on which they can or better say they want to impress their respective girlfriend. They will try all sort of methods that had been used by different people in past and also will try to use new innovative methods too so that they can show that they are different than than the other world in a way or other. I remember one of my close fiend started planning for the V -Day even 15 days earlier .He has a plan to give surprise to his girlfriend by ...... hunnnmm .... you want me to reveal it . yes... But i won't do it as it may spoil the whole program of the friend of mine as the girl might read it tooo. But one thing is sure every lover wants to make this day a big day and my friend is no exception . what you want me to share about my girlfriend. well.... I tried so much time to convince her to be with me but she is so determined not to accept my offer that she now tries to not only avoid me but she stops talking me , but never mind iI hope one day or other she will accept me and we will be seen together.



bye....